Scratch the seven-year itch with wisdom

Scratch the seven-year itch with wisdom

"Mystery is not always about traveling to new places, it's about seeing new eyes."

-Sesther Perel

I just saw Bill Clinton's glowing support from his wife for the office of commander -in -chief. With regard to his marriage, he referred to "good and bad times". He did it subtly, a kind of Voldemort effect. He danced around the co-sword of his bad times in a "she whose name should not be named" manner, but we all knew who he spoke of.

would you believe me if I would tell you that the Clinton-Lewinski scandal sparked the mind of a remarkable woman to start your search for understanding infidelity? Someone who understood Bill's actions and found that they were quite common. Her name is Esther Perel.

Ether Perel, a Belgian psychotherapist and author of Mating in Captivity, was so curious about what men and women broke out that she wrote Erotic Intelligence, an article published in the psychotherapy networker.

Have you ever wondered how some people remain committed and others can't try it? Why do some relationships crumble only 84 months after a passionate romance? And others move arm in arm on the porching swing in the golden years. Why do some people survive affairs and others are put down by them? How can affairs revive a relationship and promote the growth of all parties?

could it be that we and our partners don't have to be honest with the challenges of monogamy? Can we sit down and spend some time alone with our thoughts and wishes? I started this process by watching a TED lecture by Esther with the title "Why Happy Couples Cheat". In this introduction to her book Mating in Captivity, she examines how marriage has developed and what countless responsibilities we impose our partner today. Many of them were recently fulfilled by many different people.

Esther is impartial and open. She talks about the motives behind all our actions in relationships, even those for which we are ashamed, fraud, fraud, porn, etc. Your YouTube channel contains a growing library of her lectures, which uncover the unspoken topics behind apparently healthy relationships. If you are not a reader, you can get a good feeling for your book Mating in Captivity in your video entitled Reconciling Intimacy and Sexuality. A nice sidecar for this video is the short article Reconciling Sensuality and Domesticity, published in Psychotherapy Networker.

What I find more encouraging is your hope for authentic relationships, even after we realize how screwed up we are when it comes to expressing our needs in terms of intimacy. Esther is realistic; She makes fun of the idea that Victoria’s Secret saved a relationship, who is doomed to fail, or bring her back to the thrill that she once had. In her video the paradox of intimacy and sexuality, she gives the viewer powerful suggestions and methods to increase the desire and bring creativity into her relationship.

I think Esther teaches us relationship resilience in the field of intimacy. Grow together; To understand and respect the needs and wishes of our partners while we find space to express our own. Esther can teach us to love ourselves and our partners with new eyes. To create a relationship that not only survives, but thrives.

Thank you, Esther, for your commitment to help people love each other with acceptance and wisdom.

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