My ex-girlfriend is dating someone else - Don't panic - rebound relationships never last

My ex-girlfriend is dating someone else - Don't panic - rebound relationships never last

If your ex-girlfriend is dating someone else and you really want your ex back, then the first thing you must do is not to panic! She's in a rebound relationship right now. And ninety-nine percent of rebound relationships don't last. So if you really want to win your ex back, read on for some sage advice.

First of all, your ex-girlfriend is just seeing someone else to try to get over you. Maybe she's just doing it to make you jealous. Don't fall for it. People get into rebound relationships to avoid dealing with their emotions about their recent breakup. It doesn't mean she doesn't love you - she's just using this relationship to help her through this difficult time.

So, to comfort you at this time, remember this – your ex-girlfriend is only in this relationship to help her get over you. She doesn't want to get over you - she's confused, very emotional and hurt right now.

It makes no difference whether you broke off the relationship or she did. If you want to get your ex back, you should remember that this rebound relationship is just a tool and a tool to show you that she really loves you. Sounds crazy - but it's true.

So if you are sure that your relationship has a strong foundation of real love, you can save it and get your ex back, no matter who she is with.

Right now, your girlfriend is in a rebound relationship, which is causing her to focus on what went wrong in your relationship. That's not bad. She will choose someone who is the opposite of you. This is good because she's focusing on the "differences" between the two of you, which means she's still focused on you even when she's with the new guy.

You also need to pay attention to the differences because this probably means that she is looking for something in this new man that she feels is missing in your relationship with her. You can use this time to make some changes in yourself that she will notice and appreciate about you.

Don't disrupt this rebound relationship. After a month or so (and it may not even be that long) she will start to see what she misses about you because the new guy isn't you and can't begin to replace you.

Here are a few simple things to keep in mind:

– Give her some space and time with this rebound relationship and let her see all the good things she misses without you in her life.

– If she is willing to return to you, have mercy on her.

– Be a “new you” but be a little distant – let them chase you

– Don’t try to convince her that you are the best thing that could ever happen to her. She will discover that for herself.

– If you think you did something wrong to create the breakup, don't apologize excessively. Just say you're sorry and leave it at that.

– The rebound relationship will show her the real reason why she loves you.

– Don’t promise to change. You are who you are and who she fell in love with.

– Don’t try to make her understand that it wasn’t your fault. She will come to appreciate this over time - but only if you haven't made her invest energy in defending her position that it was your fault.